Tyler is generally quiet. Leah wants Tyler to be more open and share his thoughts. Tyler shared that when he’s quiet, Leah would say, “Is something wrong with you?” Leah was concerned about Tyler, but was saying it in a way that was off-putting. 

Instead, Tyler said she could say, “Tell me what you’re thinking about.” This would draw him out and encourage him to share. Tyler was quite skilled when he told Leah what would be more effective.