What Our Clients Are Saying
Scott Wolfe, PhD Master Trainer and Consultant, The Gottman Institute
Full of wonderful vignettes that describe the problematic dynamics and language of everyday couples and how to improve them. You can easily find your own relationship interactions in these pages as I did. This book helps couples to better select their words carefully and artfully. Couples therapists will learn how best to counsel their patients into changing words to maintain their connection.
William J. Doherty, PhD Emeritus Professor, University of Minnesota Author, Take Back Your Marriage
In good times and bad, marriage is an ongoing conversation. I am delighted to see a book so focused on how we use our words in these conversations. It's filled with subtle and practical tools for understanding how our words can misfire and how we can use them to build the kind of relationship that gives joy over a lifetime.