What Our Clients Are Saying

Scott Wolfe, PhD Master Trainer and Consultant, The Gottman Institute

Full of wonderful vignettes that describe the problematic dynamics and language of everyday couples and how to improve them. You can easily find your own relationship interactions in these pages as I did. This book helps couples to better select their words carefully and artfully. Couples therapists will learn how best to counsel their patients into changing words to maintain their connection.

William J. Doherty, PhD Emeritus Professor, University of Minnesota Author, Take Back Your Marriage

In good times and bad, marriage is an ongoing conversation. I am delighted to see a book so focused on how we use our words in these conversations. It's filled with subtle and practical tools for understanding how our words can misfire and how we can use them to build the kind of relationship that gives joy over a lifetime.

Grateful God Put You in Our Life

I truly believe God puts the right people in your life just when you need them most. We are so grateful he put you in ours. Thank you for all your hard work and great efforts in helping us.

Confidence our relationship could be repaired

I cannot begin to express the immense amount of gratitude that I have for Dr. Rein for guiding us with his expertise on the road to repairing our marriage. We separated a couple of times and in fact, were separated at the time we started our couples counseling with Dr. Rein.

He gave us the confidence that our relationship, being that we both wanted it very much, could be repaired. The dialog that we had with each other was guided by Dr. Rein and he taught us so much about communication.

We were aware of our issues but had no idea that we weren't communicating effectively. Communication is the key to a successful marriage. Just choosing a different way of saying something can make a world of difference.

Before we started couples therapy, I never would have thought changing our way of communicating would have such a positive impact. Through that, we were able to talk in a healthy way about anything. In all of our sessions, Dr. Rein really listened to what we were saying, watched us interact as a couple and offered his expertise. He is very skilled, knowledgeable, sincere, kind and supportive and truly wants to see couples succeed.

I will be forever grateful for what he has done for my marriage. The skills he taught us, we use all the time. What we learned in our therapy will forever be a part of our lives. I highly recommend Dr. Rein. He is one of a kind, a true blessing! We are both very grateful and also very happy to say we ended our separation, and my husband came back home. We will be celebrating 32 years of marriage in a few months! Dr. Rein helped make this possible!!! Thank you so much, Dr. Rein!

Learning a new and better language

After more than two decades of marriage, we had deeply-rooted poor communication patterns. We had never learned to speak effectively to each other without setting off triggers, or creating a “second fight.”

That cycle of negativity caused frustration and resentment that undermined and threatened our relationship. Through our work with Dr. Rein, we learned how to manage these complicated issues and become a stronger and closer couple.

Dr. Rein is a very special couples therapist. He is highly skilled and patient guided. He helped us to finally communicate effectively, which was very much like learning a new and better language. We highly recommend Dr. Rein. He offers couples insightful observations and suggestions in a very positive and productive environment.

Share Your Experience

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