Individual Relationship Coaching

I cannot begin to express the immense amount of gratitude that I have for Dr. Rein for guiding us with his expertise on the road to repairing our marriage. We separated a couple of times and in fact, were separated at the time we started our couples counseling with Dr. Rein.

He gave us the confidence that our relationship, being that we both wanted it very much, could be repaired. The dialog that we had with each other was guided by Dr. Rein and he taught us so much about communication.

We were aware of our issues but had no idea that we weren’t communicating effectively. Communication is the key to a successful marriage. Just choosing a different way of saying something can make a world of difference.

Before we started couples therapy, I never would have thought changing our way of communicating would have such a positive impact. Through that, we were able to talk in a healthy way about anything. In all of our sessions, Dr. Rein really listened to what we were saying, watched us interact as a couple and offered his expertise. He is very skilled, knowledgeable, sincere, kind and supportive and truly wants to see couples succeed.

I will be forever grateful for what he has done for my marriage. The skills he taught us, we use all the time. What we learned in our therapy will forever be a part of our lives. I highly recommend Dr. Rein. He is one of a kind, a true blessing! We are both very grateful and also very happy to say we ended our separation, and my husband came back home. We will be celebrating 32 years of marriage in a few months! Dr. Rein helped make this possible!!! Thank you so much, Dr. Rein!

When my husband and I started seeing Dr. Rein, we thought our relationship might not work because our personalities were too different.

We had been seeing another marriage counselor for over 6 months and that just wasn’t working. Looking back, our first marriage counselor felt more like a referee. My husband and I would discuss our fights and she’d let us know which one of us was being reasonable and which one was being unreasonable; then we’d discuss our different upbringings to determine why each of us felt the way we felt.

Those methods never moved us forward. Dr. Rein never felt like a referee; he felt like a coach. If my husband felt unappreciated, it was taken as a fact; it wasn’t debated. The goal was to understand how I could express my appreciation because what I was saying or doing wasn’t working.

If I felt hurt by something my husband said, it was taken as a fact; it wasn’t debated or determined to be an unreasonable feeling. The goal was to help my husband understand why I felt hurt and to help him communicate his feelings in a way that wasn’t hurtful to me.

After working with Dr. Rein our personalities haven’t changed but our communication has and that has made all the difference. My husband and I still have disagreements, but we know how to keep them from escalating to relationship-harming blowouts. We are much more capable of expressing our wants and needs while still expressing how much we truly care for each other. I feel like we have “us” back. We have found our friendship again; we have fun all the time and enjoy each other again. I am so incredibly grateful for Dr. Rein’s help in saving our relationship.

I often think about how you helped us through our troubled time and just want to thank you again. Our relationship has grown better and better by the years because of our meetings with you, learning to communicate, and of course staying out of trouble on my end.

Last year, I took our whole family on safari and I surprised her with renewing our vows in the Kalahari Desert at sunset. She’s the best thing that ever happened to me and you helped open my eyes to what I really had, because at the end of the day, she really wasn’t the cause. I sincerely want you to know that I doubt we would still be together without your help. Just so you know, anyone I talk to who has relationship issues, you’re the number I give them. Not sure if you see any of them, but for their sake, I hope so.

I just wanted to say that I enjoy the blogs that you’ve been sending and let you know that we are so grateful for your help. The “marathon sessions” were the best! That may have been more than a year ago, maybe two, but our relationship is still benefiting from the things you taught us.

Now, when one of us gets upset about something, it’s not a world-ending downward-spiraling catastrophe (and that’s a relief in itself!), but instead we can get ourselves out of it and even laugh together! It’s been great and we say all the time that we’re so thankful for you.

Dr. Rein’s approach to couples counseling is very invigorating. When my wife and I began counseling I would have to admit I was not hopeful for a happy ending. I had resigned myself to the fact that my wife and I would go our separate ways.

The counseling sessions were at times very intense. As we worked together, with Dr. Rein’s guidance I realized what a great loss it would have been if my wife and I were not able to work through our issues. I am forever grateful for the work Dr. Rein put in and his approach was flawless.

“A good marriage isn’t something you find; it’s something you make, and you have to keep making it.” Thanks to Dr. Rein we are making it. With his tremendous support, and guidance he has helped us to overcome many obstacles.

Our story is not like others, as there was another component to my infidelity, and that was my struggle with addiction to medication. I never shared this extremely painful problem with my husband until my infidelity was discovered.

Now, here we were dealing with two very painful hurdles, and so much pain. In the beginning, it seemed that I had surely broken our marriage forever. Dr. Rein has helped us rebuild our marriage as well as my self esteem. He has provided us with the tools we need for effective communication.

Every passing day we are still recovering, but with Dr. Rein’s help we finally see light at the end of what has been the darkest tunnel. We are beyond grateful to have found him. He truly cares, and it shows. He has helped us to overcome not only infidelity, but my addiction as well. Thank you from the very depths of our hearts Dr. Rein.

Communication was an issue in our marriage for over a decade and we got to a point where we felt like giving up. Dr. Rein’s approach was like nothing we had ever experienced before. It helped us better understand each other and made even the most complex marital issues seem effortless to handle. I cannot imagine how our marriage could have survived without the compassionate counseling of Dr. Rein. I’m proud to say that our marriage is stronger than ever and we owe that to Dr. Rein.

When we were referred to Dr. Rein, our marriage was broken, seemingly beyond repair. With the guidance and support of Dr. Rein (aka: the marriage whisperer) our marriage is happier and healthier than it has ever been. He also gifted us with a skill set that we can use anytime we need for a “marriage check-up”. We are grateful beyond words for Dr. Rein’s help.

I have my husband back!!!! With Dr. Rein’s guidance my husband and I have reconnected and are in love again. I didn’t really believe it was possible to save my marriage. I made the 1st appointment because I wanted to be able to say we tried everything before filing for divorce, but I still expected to be getting a divorce. Never been so happy to be wrong!