The husband of one of my couples talked about having a measured response. This was a great description of what individuals try to achieve in...
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06.052025March 25, 2025
Damaged?
Phil told me that he and Elyse had a damaged relationship. At home, the language was inflammatory, and conversations were futile. In couples counseling, they...
29.042025March 25, 2025
The Best I Can
As Tom and Andrea discussed their struggles, Tom said, “I’m doing the best I can.” I told Tom that the statement suggests he cannot do...
22.042025March 25, 2025
Profound Impact
By Dr. Richard ReinIn Couples TherapyTags Awareness, Emotional Intelligence, Emotional Maturity, Empathy
Avery talked about a turning point in their relationship after she revealed to Dom that she was in a low place in her life. Since...
15.042025March 25, 2025
Tell Me Your Thoughts
“Tell me your thoughts” is a nice statement for couples to add to their repertoire. It represents interest and curiosity in your partner and encourages...
08.042025March 25, 2025
Lack of Execution
In my first meeting with Sherry and Luke, Sherry said she was ready to leave the relationship. She doubted their communication and ability to function...
01.042025March 25, 2025
Conflict Determines Intimacy
I have been working with Chuck and Alyson in couples counseling for about 9 months, and they talked about their lack of intimacy—no affection or...
25.032025March 25, 2025
Translations
In couples counseling, couples primarily talk directly to each other. However, sometimes, an individual wants to express something to their partner but doesn’t know how...
18.032025January 13, 2025
Without Imposing
Derek and Janine were struggling in their relationship. Tension was high, and they were disconnected. We discussed how they could express their opinions without imposing...
11.032025January 13, 2025
I Want to Flee
One of my clients says their partner wants to address issues, and they want to flee. They become overwhelmed and don’t trust that they and...