Struggling couples typically recognize that change is needed. Couples counseling clarifies what needs to change. The job of a skilled couples counselor is to take...
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25.022026January 14, 2026
Gradual Change
By Dr. Richard ReinIn Couples Therapy, Marriage Counseling, Relationship CounselingTags Disconnection, Infidelity, Neglect, Recurring Patterns
There is a parable that says if you toss a frog into a pot of boiling water, it’s going to feel the intense heat immediately,...
18.022026January 14, 2026
Two Heads
By Dr. Richard ReinIn Couples Therapy, Marriage Counseling, Relationship CounselingTags Communication Skills, Conflict Resolution, Respectful Discussions
Greg and Aimee have a contentious relationship. Rather than discussing, each is trying to convince and make a case for their position. This sets the...
11.022026January 14, 2026
Looped
By Dr. Richard ReinIn Couples Therapy, Marriage Counseling, Relationship CounselingTags Accountability, Alcohol Use, Blame Loops, Recurring Patterns
Jeff and Abby are struggling. Abby is absorbed by her demanding job and tending to their young children. Jeff is personally struggling and using alcohol...
04.022026January 14, 2026
Sharing Thoughts
By jayme welchIn Couples Therapy, Marriage Counseling, Relationship CounselingTags Asking Better Questions, Communication Skills, Emotional Expression
Tyler is generally quiet. Leah wants Tyler to be more open and share his thoughts. Tyler shared that when he’s quiet, Leah would say, “Is...
28.012026January 14, 2026
Statements are Clearer
By Dr. Richard ReinIn Couples Therapy, Marriage Counseling, Relationship CounselingTags Communication Skills, Emotional Expression
Dan asked, “Are you okay?” and Rebecca said she didn’t like the question. In our couples counseling session, I asked Dan to change the question...
21.012026January 14, 2026
Rewriting History
By Dr. Richard ReinIn Couples Therapy, Marriage Counseling, Relationship CounselingTags Dismissiveness, Recurring Patterns, Repairs
When women want to address unfinished issues from the past, it’s not uncommon for husbands to say, “It’s in the past.” However, the comment is...
14.012026January 14, 2026
Transformation
By Dr. Richard ReinIn Couples Therapy, Marriage Counseling, Relationship CounselingTags Abuse, Escalation, Verbal Abuse
Jack and Danielle have been married for three decades and were in a bad place. Jack had been married twice before, and this was their...
17.122025November 6, 2025
The Grass is Greener
The husband of a couple was questioning whether to continue his marriage. His wife was concerned that he was comparing their relationship to others. Her...
10.122025November 6, 2025
Getting Close
By Dr. Richard ReinIn Couples Therapy, Individual Relationship Coaching, Marriage CounselingTags Affection, Infidelity, Intimacy
I had been seeing Andrew and Katherine in couples counseling for a year and a half, and now they were coming to the end of...