Infidelity is sometimes the crisis that brings couples to counseling, but ultimately couples are working on their relationship in couples counseling. These couples often work through issues in ways they couldn’t on their own. One couple working through infidelity said, “This is better than when we first met.” I rarely meet couples who work through infidelity effectively on their own; even if they get through the crisis, the underlying issues that affected the infidelity are often still not resolved.